Advice of the Week

The Art of Kindness: How to Be Nicer to People

By-Pha Nguyen, Advice Column

Date-September 22nd, 2023.

Kindness is a quality that has the power to brighten not only someone else's day but also your own. Being nicer to people is a choice that can transform your interactions and relationships, leading to a happier and more compassionate world. In this article, we will explore practical ways to cultivate kindness in your daily life.


 1. Practice Active Listening One of the most fundamental ways to be nicer to people is by practicing active listening. When you engage in a conversation, truly focus on what the other person is saying without distractions or formulating your response. Make eye contact, nod to show understanding, and ask open-ended questions to encourage them to share more. By doing so, you demonstrate that their thoughts and feelings matter to you, fostering a deeper connection. 


 2. Show Empathy Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It's the cornerstone of kindness. To be nicer to people, put yourself in their shoes. Try to comprehend their emotions and perspectives. When someone is going through a tough time, offer your support by saying, "I'm here for you," or "Is there anything I can do to help?" Empathy builds trust and strengthens bonds. 


 3. Mind Your Words and Tone Effective communication is crucial when aiming to be nicer to people. Pay attention to both your words and your tone. Speak kindly and respectfully, avoiding sarcasm, harsh criticism, or negative language. A simple "please" and "thank you" can go a long way in making people feel appreciated and respected. Remember, it's not just what you say but how you say it that matters. 


 4. Small Acts of Kindness Kindness doesn't always require grand gestures. Small acts of kindness can have a profound impact. Hold the door for someone, help carry heavy bags, or offer a genuine compliment. These acts demonstrate that you care about the well-being of others and can brighten their day.  



About the Contributor

Pha Nguyen

ORB- Walk and Talk/ Orbit Online- Advice Column

Pha Nguyen is an 8th grader and she has been in Classen since 5th grade. This is her first year in the Yearbook and Orbit and she is so excited. She is an IB major, and her favorite colors are Blue and orange. Her favorite thing to do when she's bored is take a run and listen to music.